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  Tracy Vacarella

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12/31/2021 11:48:54

12/31/2021 11:49:16

Happy new year!!!

04/23/2022 03:46:12

Marilyn told me that they're taking your dad to hospice, if it's not too late would like to pay our respects to him please text me which Hospice is at

04/23/2022 03:46:59

Hi. We’re still at the hospital, waiting for hospice to come transfer. As soon as I know where, I’ll text you.

04/23/2022 03:56:48

Thnx

04/24/2022 00:53:51

Let me know when you are back. Emma and I will go outside so you can come in

04/24/2022 01:26:20

On our way

04/24/2022 01:27:49

Ok

04/24/2022 03:24:51

Are you coming back ? You left your bags here we don't want to leave them unattended.

04/24/2022 03:25:30

Just parking outside

04/24/2022 03:27:28

No rush

04/24/2022 06:43:23

Thanks for today love seeing you praying for your pops

04/24/2022 06:43:27

Call me tomorrow

04/24/2022 06:49:41

Loved my time with you and Maritza today!! Thank you so much for coming down. I’ll call you tomorrow

04/25/2022 10:55:47

Didn't hear from you today all is well up in west palm

04/25/2022 18:47:52

So sorry. Yesterday was not as a great as Sunday. He was a little more weaker, way more harder to understand, and winded. Still mentally present during the day. At night he gets a little confused. I told them I expect to hear from a Dr to explain a plan or what’s going on with him. Can you believe no one to this day has met with me? He’s been there since late Saturday night.

04/25/2022 18:49:28

He’s not in pain so that’s great. But he was super super restless and fidgety all day and into night like he couldn’t get comfortable at all. I asked the lady out front to tell the nurse to please give him something to calm him. That’s the other thing. I’m there all day until 7pm. I have never once seen them give my dad medication?

04/25/2022 18:49:45

I’m frustrated. And tired.

04/26/2022 05:40:05

I get it 100% down your sword and shield let God take most of this week and take care of yourself last thing your husband or your kids need is you having a heart attack or croaking

04/26/2022 05:40:14

My prayer group is praying for you as we text

04/26/2022 05:40:46

Thank you so so much.

04/26/2022 05:40:52

I’m so drained.

04/26/2022 08:58:28

Here’s the latest..

04/26/2022 08:58:32

I did get to speak to the dr and social worker today. He reviewed everything that’s transpired since Friday night. Said my dad was completely steps away from death Saturday night. He was completely unresponsive, no pupil reactions, nothing. It was horrific.
They Can’t really explain the change from Saturday to Sunday where he woke up and was alert, etc.
Said it’s way too early to know if what we’re experiencing right now is part of the peaks and valleys that are common in the death process known as "resurgence." His “bounce back” could be temporary, bc he's definitely not well. And he was about 90% dead Saturday.
From Sunday to Monday there was a little less energy, seemed a little weaker, but still awake and responsive.
From yesterday to today there’s been no change. Not worse not better. If he remains “stable” for the rest of the week, then we will discuss transferring him back to alf. And by stable they mean stays the same even though he's not really "stable" Because maximum stay at this unit is 7 days.
If he remains without change, they will not keep him even though he is dying, can’t swallow and will have to live off of purée foods, which he refuses to eat, and that he has no voice to speak or that he coughs and chokes on phlegm.
Basically they stabilize them here to send them back home to die... is what it sounds like. So confusing.
he’s still only on comfort meds. I believe they discontinued his regular meds since Saturday.

05/01/2022 06:01:22

How’s your dad?

05/03/2022 21:34:34

I'm almost afraid to ask but I suspect that your dad passed away

05/03/2022 21:35:22

We had to rescue our dad from the nursing home that was killing him and I've been tied up with legal proceedings he had a heart attack he put him in the ICU because of lack of care from the medical medical facility he was in and out the guardians he have a trying to block us from him and won't even let us see him in the ICU

05/03/2022 21:35:35

I'm so sorry Tracie I would've been there for you if there's anything I could still do let me know

05/03/2022 21:40:34

Text me facility address again

05/03/2022 21:41:38

I can’t believe what you are going through, it’s just awful. I’m so sorry.

05/03/2022 21:42:24

05/03/2022 21:42:31

Vitas building
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05/03/2022 21:44:42

But at least I had 20 more years with my dad you were lucky that your dad absolutely adored you so much and you were able to have kids I had to playlist

05/03/2022 21:46:22

I’m beyond blessed for the gift he gave me of coming back to me Sunday and the decent week we had before he declined again.it’s killing my soul, but I’m grateful I can be here with him.

05/04/2022 11:16:28

I just came back, he's doing OK. I wish I could hear the same from you. Stay strong I love you dearly you guys accept them as family after so many years of absence eternally grateful

05/04/2022 16:59:33

Loved “I just came back, he's doing OK. I wish I could hear the same from you. Stay strong I love you dearly you guys accept them as family after so many years of absence eternally grateful”

05/04/2022 17:28:09

He just passed away

05/04/2022 19:06:57

I am so sorry I'll connect with you later this afternoon

05/05/2022 23:16:30

05/07/2022 01:33:11

Met with my friend Nicole, event planner I work with. Hired her to do the celebration of life at my house. That way we can all just enjoy ourselves. They’ll take care of everything from set up to clean up. Getting it catered with brunch and bartender. Renting a big tent with tables and chairs, centerpieces, DJ (with AV) to show video montage and there will be a mic in case anyone wants to share anything. I’ll have a memorial table with his personal things and pics. It’s going to be beautiful and great. Hope you can make it,

05/07/2022 02:44:45

Will be there

05/07/2022 02:47:56

Loved “Will be there”

06/01/2022 05:38:54

Dad slimy lawyer and the Guardian or supposed to be on opposing sides are trying to illegally sell my dad's house tomorrow. If you could attend this one hour zoom I would appreciate it because the more people that are in the zoom the more likely the judge is going to do the right thing

06/01/2022 05:38:57

For tomorrow's zoom meeting at 2 o'clock listen up everybody.
1. Download Zoom from the Apple Store app or your android.
2. At 1:45 tomorrow June 2, 2022
Open up the Zoom app
It will ask you for a meeting ID
Meeting ID 81552771532
It will ask you for the meeting password. The password is
12710736

You will come to a screen that will tell you that the judge will let you in at 2 PM.

You are what are called COURT WATCHERS you cannot speak unless the judge asked you to speak. Speaking out, yelling or voicing disapproval will only get the judge to shut us down and rule for the opposing party.
If the judge asks who you are you can say you are interested parties, friends of Benito, here to support Maritza and Zoraida. Play with this tonight so that you don't get confused tomorrow. If you need help call me.

If for some reason you cannot get into the zoom you can listen to the call and it will register as you are present by calling either of these
1-877-853-5257 or
1-888-475-4499

06/01/2022 05:39:05

Also let me know when you're going to do your dad's memorial here

06/01/2022 19:40:39

Reminder of today's zoom call at 2 PM

06/01/2022 19:42:27

Hi! I meant to respond yesterday but got caught up. I have an appt at 1:45 with the bank, so I’m not sure I can hop on, but I will try my best. Sorry you are going through this. ❤️

06/02/2022 04:17:13

No problem your prayers are enough

06/08/2022 06:15:52

The stay away order for relatives and friends has been lifted. You are free to visit Benito he is in
La Posada
11900 Taylor Dr., Palm Beach Gardens Florida
room 1014 ?
Tel 561-701-8197
Please check up on him to cheer him up he's been isolated for almost 3 weeks. Don't discuss anything about this case if you know about it, I don't want to worry him. Just make sure he's happy I'm doing OK thanks guys you all the best!
Zoraida and Maritza

06/08/2022 06:48:42

So happy to hear this news. I will def make my way up to see him soon…❤️

06/10/2022 21:42:38

The creepy guardian apparently is keeping everybody away he must've paid the guards at the gate house even though when you called me rehab center they say only us have a stay way order they're not letting anybody at the gatehouse. Suspect they have paid off the guards

06/10/2022 21:43:32

When you can email me a letter detailing that I went to see your dad that you were concerned that they didn't take care of them at the nursing home and that's why he suddenly deteriorated when all he had was Parkinson's.

06/10/2022 21:43:51

My Attorney wants to use it as semi state of mind when I agreed not to return my dad to the nursing home because he didn't wanna go back

06/10/2022 21:44:09

Drnavarro@drnavarro.com

06/10/2022 21:44:15

Thanks